One day,  a kid who was into his regular activities started noticing some sort of changes within him. He doesn’t know what was that, but he felt it… He started to feel the difference so deep, he couldn’t resist himself from what was going on within him. Slowly he tried to change his appearance but still, he found it hard to do so… The little heart pumped to search answer for himself… Why can’t he able to be like himself?? Why only he feels such difference within him and why not his friends??? His questions were left unanswered. He felt so void and incomplete, made him weep and deep…

But how long??? How long could he hold his breath??? Days have passed…people started to notice his change in behaviour. His friends went apart( at least their parents hold them), his playground went empty when he was in. His school didn’t seem like before, he sat all alone in his desk, no one came nearby. He was cornered.

And so his parents too. They couldn’t take up this. Their concern was more on their society and not on their son. He was abused both physically and mentally. How long could he cry??? Neither family nor society accepted him from what he was going through. He mourns and mourns… But nothing helped him. He lost his temper, he crossed his threshold, he understood nothing going to help in holding him from what he was going through…

Finally, he decided to let it go as to how it goes. He changed his appearance and identity. The little boy changed from HE TO SHE. He knew his house was no more his home, his family and friends would no more belong to him, and so his school too. Still, he felt happy to leave them. He found nowhere to the circle where he meant to be.

For an instant, let every one of us put ourselves in the situation and let’s feel the experience!!!!!!!! Is that painful????? and so for them too….

Losing your identity is not that easy to accept, and why to corner them????? What will they do if their hormones misbehave???? Why they have to be punishable for no crime????? Not even their fault rite!!!!!

That boy would have felt his first deep relief only after seeing the people of his own kind… Is that because they are all alike??? No, definitely not. It is all because ONLY THEY HAVE ACCEPTED HIM FOR WHAT HE IS. We (society) made them move away. Ain’t that true!!!!

Oh my dear, are you panic because of their rough and harsh behaviour!!! Maybe yes, even I do!! But why they do so?? what made them?? They consider it as their armed protection from this society, to overcome grieve they face…

All they need is a place for them in this society. A small change in our perception can give them life.

Why can’t we give a try !!!! How it would be, When all the institutions, all the forms and certificates, public places possess a special category called “Special gender or transgender” !!!

How it would be when all of us address each of them with “Mx” !!!! They too do have emotions, and strive to live a decent life in this society, to get a qualified education, to get a job to earn and to live and give…. Special genders are not meant to beg for money but they left with no option… They actually beg for respect, to value their life, after all, they also own this motherland… Though a few institutions, companies and a few public places provide them with a special place to move on, the ratio is very minimal… Irrespective of special provisions, let them be one among us…

Let us widen our vision, to let them live…

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